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Relationship Coach PodcasterAward-Winning Author JOHN CERTALIC

HELPING PEOPLE OF FAITH FIND THE JOY WE WERE MADE FOR IN OUR RELATIONSHIPS.

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    You Were Made For This

    Our relationships are so important to living a fulfilling life, we do ourselves a favor when we do what we can to make those relationships the best they can be. To that end, listen to Episode 139 of You Were Made for This. You'll learn the benefits of listening to this podcast in helping you find more of the joy God intends for you in your relationships.

    Latest Episodes

    "At the end of the day, nothing matters MORE than relationships." — John Certalic

    • A Joy to Be Around

    225: A Joy to Be Around

    August 23rd, 2025|Categories: Finding Joy in Relationships, Podcast|Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , |

    Today’s episode Some people are a joy to be around. I have a story for you today about one of them, and what I learned about being more

    • Suzanne - beloved wife, dear mom, and organ donor

    224: God Cares For Us In Ways We Rarely Consider

    August 6th, 2025|Categories: God in Our Relationships, Podcast|Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , |

    I’ve been reflecting more and more lately about how much God cares about us.  When we hurt he hurts. Today’s episode is about how God responds to the

    223: A Christmas in July Story

    July 16th, 2025|Categories: Podcast, Relational Skills|Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , |

    As I’m recording this, Christmas is almost six months away. I recall last Christmas, when I heard a few people say they wished we could have the Christmas

    • Listen to someone's story

    222: “I Want to Hear Your Story”

    July 2nd, 2025|Categories: Becoming a Better Listener, Podcast|Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , |

    I’ve come to learn that relating with people through the lens of “I want to hear your story” is a great way to live. It enriches our lives

    • An act of kindness by Polish mothers who reflect the character of God

    221: An Act of Kindness Remembered Decades Later

    June 18th, 2025|Categories: Finding Joy in Relationships, Podcast|Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , |

    You never know how an act of kindness will be remembered with fondness many decades later. It reminds us that when we are kind, it’s because God made

    • You Were Made for This

    220: A Podcast You and I Want to Listen To

    June 4th, 2025|Categories: God in Our Relationships, Podcast|Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , |

    Have you noticed how everyone seems to have a podcast these days? Most of them just don’t appeal to me. So, in 2018, I created one that does—

    Episode Topics

    214: People Are Like Houses

    A listener once suggested that for a podcast episode I should read from the book I wrote in 2016, THEM- The Richer Life Found in Caring for Others.

    225: A Joy to Be Around

    Today’s episode Some people are a joy to be around. I have a story for you today about one of them, and what I learned about being more

    223: A Christmas in July Story

    As I’m recording this, Christmas is almost six months away. I recall last Christmas, when I heard a few people say they wished we could have the Christmas

    215: Searching for My Birth Father

    One of the more popular topics from past episodes has been the story of Gail Rohde who was adopted as an infant, and her search as an adult

    222: “I Want to Hear Your Story”

    I’ve come to learn that relating with people through the lens of “I want to hear your story” is a great way to live. It enriches our lives

     Recent Articles

    Some People Are a Joy to Be Around

    Reader, In today’s episode of You Were Made for This I talk about people who are a joy to be around, and one person in particular. You’ll also hear about Someone who invited their barber to Thanksgiving dinner How several teenagers made $3,500 this past summer to pay for college One small question that evoked joy from the person who answered it What makes a person a joy to be around Something that happens inside of us when people truly listen to each other Click here to listen in. Until...

    Grief Doesn't Follow the Rules

    Hi , After episode 224 dropped last week regarding the fifth anniversary of the death of our friend Suzanne, her husband, Martin shared something interesting with me. It is a poem someone shared with him in the early days of his grief. It came from a Facebook grief group, but the author is unknown. Martin found it comforting, so I am passing it on to you. Grief has seasons. Not the kind you can track on a calendar. Not winter, spring, summer, fall. But the seasons of the soul. There’s the...

    Writer's Digest Best Inspirational Book of 2016

    THEM is all about relationships and how to make them better. You'll read real-life stories showing the joy found in bringing out the best in others, which brings out the best in ourselves.

    Have you ever wanted to understand and help someone who is depressed or angry? How about someone who is fearful, or has trouble forgiving and reconciling with others? Maybe you want to know how to better encourage someone.

    In THEM – The Richer Life Found in Caring for Others, John Certalic weaves together real-life stories that practically show how to help others – and ourselves – deal with the challenging relational issues that affect us so deeply.

    Winner of Writer's Digest Best Inspirational Book of 2016. Endorsed by Dr. Laura Mae Gardner, Ruth Van Reken, Dr. John Powell, Stuart Briscoe, and numerous missionaries.

    Writer's Digest Best Inspirational Book of 2016

    THEM is all about relationships and how to make them better. You'll read real-life stories showing the joy found in bringing out the best in others, which brings out the best in ourselves.

    Have you ever wanted to understand and help someone who is depressed or angry? How about someone who is fearful, or has trouble forgiving and reconciling with others? Maybe you want to know how to better encourage someone.

    In THEM – The Richer Life Found in Caring for Others, John Certalic weaves together real-life stories that practically show how to help others – and ourselves – deal with the challenging relational issues that affect us so deeply.

    Winner of Writer's Digest Best Inspirational Book of 2016. Endorsed by Dr. Laura Mae Gardner, Ruth Van Reken, Dr. John Powell, Stuart Briscoe, and numerous missionaries.

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