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Hi Reader, Later this week I’m giving an online talk to a group of 25-30 regional mission leaders serving in Asia. The title and topic they gave me to speak about: “The Gift of Listening.” In preparing for my time with these missionaries, I came across a quote that fits in well. Here's why I will be a good person. Because I listen. I cannot speak so I listen very well. I never interrupt, I never deflect the course of the conversation with a comment of my own. People, if you pay attention to them, change the direction of one another's conversations constantly. It's like having a passenger in your car who suddenly grabs the steering wheel and turns you down a side street.
– Garth Stein, The Art of Racing in the Rain
I especially like the last sentence. I’ve had many passengers in my car like the one described. I know you have, too. Lord, keep me from being one of them myself. Until next time, keep listening, John Certalic P.S. If you're interested in becoming a better listener, click here. It will take you to articles and podcast episodes on our website about this important topic. You Were Made for This is the podcast sponsored by Caring for Others, a missionary care ministry. |
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